Nursing A Distractible Baby

Nursing a distractible baby

Finding it hard to breastfeed your little one? Are they starting to squirm, pull away, or get easily distracted by what’s around them? While you may be concerned at first, do not worry! This is a common occurrence in infants between 6-12 months of age. Keep reading to learn how to manage nursing during this time.

Why Is My Baby Distracted?

Infants around this age can be easily distracted by others in the room, television, or public spaces. Distractibility can be the result of developmental leaps when your baby learns a new skill such as crawling, sitting or walking. You may also notice changes in their sleeping pattern during these leaps as well. Do keep in mind that distractibility is a sign that your infant’s brain is developing, since they are more aware of their surroundings. They are starting to be able to control their eye movements, and are developing proper depth perception.

They finally are able to see the world around them how we see it, and are taking it all in! 

Does This Mean My Baby Is Ready To Wean?

It is very rare for infants to start to wean before 12 months of age. A distracted baby does not mean they are no longer interested in nursing. Keep in mind that your child is now a much more efficient nurser in comparison to when they were a newborn. They may be nursing for shorter periods of time, but this does not mean they are no longer interested. In fact, your baby is getting more milk than before during these short nursing sessions. You may find them having short feedings during the day, and longer ones at night. 

How Can I Nurse An Easily Distracted Baby?

Limiting distractions is one of the best ways to help your baby focus on nursing. Try these options out if your baby is easily diverted!

  • Breastfeed in a quiet, darkened room, away from others 
  • Speak softly, or stay quiet during the feeding if your little one is easily distracted by noises
  • If unable to feed alone in a room, try using a nursing cover or sling to help your infant focus on the feeding and not on their surroundings
  • Nurse in motion such as by walking or rocking while feeding
  • Breastfeed before leaving the house to go somewhere, so you can control the amount of stimuli in the environment

Do What Works For Your Baby

If you find your baby eats better at night, you can try to increase night time feedings to ensure that they are getting enough milk if they are frequently distracted during other feedings. Remember, it is the total caloric intake over 24 hours that matters, not the amount of times that your infant breastfeeds. In fact, older babies may even consume up to 25% of their caloric intake at night!


Is your baby pulling and biting on your nipples? This can be due to boredom or distractedness. Be prepared to insert your finger into the corner of your baby’s mouth to break suction if your infant is pulling away during breastfeeding. Watch out for signs of boredom which is generally at the end of a breastfeeding session, and a common time that biting occurs. If this is the case for your child, gently remove them from the breast if you notice boredom.

Still noticing your infant is frequently distracted or squirming? Try these tips:

  • Older infants may prefer positions where they have more control, such as sitting or standing
  • If breastfeeding sessions are shorter that normal, offer breastfeeding more often, even if they are not asking for it
  • Sometimes, offering a favorite toy or blanket during breastfeeding sessions that you can incorporate in your breastfeeding routine can be helpful
  • Try minimizing your own distractions such as the television or your phone and focus your attention on your infant. They can tell if you are distracted!

Remember, distractibility is a normal phase of infancy. However if you are struggling to breastfeed your distracted infant for an extended period of time, it may be a good time to reach out to a lactation consultant. We are always here to help you!

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